Dear friends, I am deeply honored to share this moving and beautiful story about our sisters and brothers in Ukraine (and Africa and Hungary), written by my dear sister, Lauren Jacobs, and conveyed with photos by my dear brother, Ryan Carter. In it, you will find a beautiful picture of HOSPITALITY (from Hungarians to African students who were living in Ukraine when the war broke out), COMMUNITY (as the need and numbers of African-Ukraine students grew, so did the support!), and EVERYDAY ACTS OF LOVE (doing what you can, with what you have, from where you are). Ahh, what a blessing is THIS?

Pour yourself a cuppa something cozy and get ready to be wowed!

A nudge: As you read this, ask yourself, “How might this story inspire me today to share an act with love with someone near or far?”

When war broke out in Ukraine on the 24th of February, life changed for everyone. The darkness of war gripped those fleeing from the blasts, and among those fleeing the Russian army, were the 76,000 plus international students studying at Ukrainian universities. Daily life looked like sitting behind a book, in a lecture, behind a computer screen writing essays and dreaming about life after university. Now with the Russian invasion, international students found themselves overwhelmed, isolated and on the run to cross borders in to foreign neighbouring countries. Stranded, and without embassy or university support, African students found themselves fleeing to neighbouring countries but without accommodation, or the ability to understand local languages in a new country. Some had fled from war back home in Africa, finding solace and new hope while studying in Ukraine, now they were fleeing a war the second time.

Just 48 hours after the invasion, Gabriel Asante, president of Ghana students Association in Budapest (GASH for short), received a desperate call for help. The call was simple. Nineteen Ghanaian students and 2 Nigerian students had managed to board a train from Ukraine and are heading to Hungary, can you help them?

When I got the call, I knew I needed to help these students, so I called my guys and told them we need to find accommodation for these students. But finding accommodation was difficult, we didn’t have resources, or money, and accommodation was booked out. The pastor of the Pentecost International Worship Centre in Budapest allowed us to bring the students to the church on the morning of their arrival, until we could place them in their accommodation. We used the resources we had and managed to get accommodation for the students, so we brought them to the church and gave them food, made them feel safe and just talked with them before taking them to their accommodation in the evening.

That was Saturday night.

Gabriel, and the financial secretary of the Ghana students Association, Patterson, as well as the PR officer, Nathaniel, made sure these students were safe and fed. But it was more than just feeding hungry, exhausted people, they wanted to give them a sense of home, a sense of hope, and a renewal of that feeling of safety.

We made only Ghanaian food for them and played Ghanaian music. This is not just about helping people; this is about feeding their soul. Telling them they are safe, giving them a sense of home, that safety of home.

A few hours later after a full day of unexpectedly finding themselves working with those effected by war, Gabriel received another call. This time 130 students were on the border of Ukraine and Hungary, with nowhere to go.

Nathaniel decided it was time to publish a social media post and ask for help for the cause. They needed accommodation, food, clothing, anything. That moment was a catalyst.

People from across Hungary started arriving and volunteering, donations of food, clothing and accommodation poured in. Psychologists volunteered their services to any traumatised students, even hanging posters with their numbers on for later use.

Gabriel, Patterson and Nathaniel partnered with “workshop,” a local café that operates as a safe place for refugees. From there, they make sure students eat warm, homemade meals and fellowship with other students. They even created a special team to check if accommodation offered by locals, was suitable for these students. They assisted fellow students in finding other schools to study at, or opportunities to help them feel safe and settled until they could decide on their future and reflect on what they had lost.

More than 30 volunteers arrived to help, and female students from universities were cooking nonstop. But that was not the end.

Over 800 international students from Kenya, Congo, South Africa, Cameroon and Nigeria arrived seeking help from Gabriel and his team. Over 325 Ghanaian students came to them as well.

We didn’t have any support, we are not an NGO but we could help over 1,100 people because whatever you want to do, you must do it. If you want to help people, do it!

Gabriel, Patterson and Nathaniel have now booked long-term accommodation for many of the students, and are continuing to support them daily. Providing food packages, they can cook for themselves and continuing to check up on them. After witnessing the power of creating community and support for those effected by war, they have now decided to start an NGO to continue to do this work. Patterson who is a key member of the team said,

When I was a child my father had a room in our house in Ghana, where people could come stay and be safe, he helped so many people, they even named their children after my father! It is part of our culture as Africans, especially in Ghana, even if you know the person or not, you still help them.

Gabriel, Patterson and Nathaniel are continuing the work they begun and anyone who reaches them in Budapest will be helped to get clothing, food and accommodation. It’s a model they want to replicate across different countries and communities.

The least we can do is help people get their life back on track again. We did it without any resources, just as students who wanted to help, and this is the best way we can do that.

While the work has slowed, the passion has not, and with an estimated 2 to 4 million more people expected to flee Ukraine as refugees, the work of support for those effected by the war, is just beginning.

Photos of this community endeavor, by Ryan Carter:

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For more information about our friends in Hungary:
Gabriel’s contact number: +36202519087
Instagram account: https://www.instagram.com/gash_hungary/
GASH email contact: ghstudentshu@gmail.com
GASH Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gashmedia.4u

About Lauren Jacobs, author of this story:
B.A. (Hons), M.Div. International Michael Brown Change Agent. Desmond Tutu – Gerrit Brand Award Winner,
Ted x Cape Town Speaker 2018. Next Generation Award Winner (Washington, U.S.A) 2019. Global Women’s Empowerment Summit Speaker 2020. Literary Artist. Professional Author. Radio Host 729AM. Ordained Minister. Journalist. Equality Advocate.

About Ryan Carter, photographer:
https://ryancarterimages.com/
https://www.facebook.com/ryancarterimages/
https://www.instagram.com/ryancarterimages/

You are loved.
You belong.
We belong to each other.
Let’s standTALL, together, and light up the world!